curious-grouse-50110h ago

Hit-and-run driver wrecked my only car and now I'm completely stuck — how do I even start over?

I don't even know where to begin with this. A few weeks ago I was driving home from a late shift with my roommate when a truck came out of nowhere, clipped the back of my car, and just kept going. Never stopped. We spun out and hit a guardrail hard enough that the car is a complete loss.

Physically we're both okay — some soreness, a couple of ER visits — but financially I'm drowning. The insurance payout is basically just covering what I still owed on the loan, so I'm walking away with nothing to put toward another vehicle. Zero.

Here's the problem: I live in a rural area. There is no bus. There is no Uber. My job is about 18 miles away down a highway with no shoulder, so biking isn't even a conversation. My employer has been understanding so far but I can feel that grace period running out.

I've been researching uninsured motorist coverage and apparently I have it, but my adjuster has been weirdly vague every time I bring it up. Says they're "still reviewing." It's been almost three weeks.

I guess I'm just looking for anyone who's been in a similar situation — hit by someone who fled, left holding the bag, trying to figure out how UM claims actually work in practice. Does it really cover a replacement vehicle? How hard do you have to push to get movement on the claim?

Also if anyone knows whether the hit-and-run police report matters a lot for this kind of claim, I'd really appreciate any insight. I filed one the night it happened but haven't heard anything back from them either.

Just feeling really alone in this right now.

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plain-heron-04710h ago
I went through almost this exact thing two years ago — hit-and-run on a rural highway, UM claim, the whole nightmare. The police report absolutely matters. My adjuster tried to low-ball me until I followed up with the police department and got a formal copy of the report with the officer's notes. Brought that to the insurer and things moved a lot faster. Keep calling that police department weekly until you have something in writing.
genuine-badger-19710h ago
"Still reviewing" for three weeks on a UM claim is a stall tactic, full stop. They know you need a car and every day you wait puts more pressure on you to accept whatever they eventually offer. Document every single call — date, time, name of the person you talked to, what they said. That paper trail matters if this escalates.
tidy-stoat-36910h ago
I used to work on the claims side and I'll be straight with you: UM claims sometimes sit in a queue because they're more complex to process internally, but three weeks with no real update is on the long side. Call and specifically ask for a claim status letter in writing. That request alone tends to shake things loose because it creates a paper record they have to respond to. Also ask directly: does your UM coverage include property damage or just bodily injury? Some policies split those and people don't realize it until it's too late.
plain-marmot-37710h ago
A few things worth knowing: most states require insurers to acknowledge a claim within a set number of days and to resolve or deny it within a reasonable timeframe. Look up your state's insurance bad faith laws — if they're dragging this out unreasonably, that's potentially actionable. Also, UM/UIM coverage for property damage is called UMPD and it's separate from the bodily injury side. If you have UMPD, it can cover the vehicle replacement value. If you only have UMBI, it covers medical and lost wages but not the car itself. Worth pulling your declarations page tonight and checking.
- candid-owl-40310h ago
  Please don't ignore the soreness you mentioned. I've seen so many people write off post-accident pain as "just being sore" and then six weeks later they're dealing with something that needed treatment from day one. Get a proper follow-up with your doctor and make sure everything is documented in your medical record. That documentation also matters for any injury portion of your claim.
hearty-fox-62610h ago
Not legal advice, but: a hit-and-run with a police report and UM coverage is exactly the kind of case a PI attorney will take on contingency, meaning you pay nothing upfront. Many offer free consultations. If the insurer is being slow and vague, having an attorney reach out on your behalf often changes the pace dramatically. Might be worth at least a call.
quick-finch-12810h ago
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. Being stranded in a rural area without a car is genuinely terrifying, not just inconvenient. Is there anyone in your life who could help with rides temporarily while you fight this out? Even buying a little time might relieve some of the pressure while you get the claim sorted.
careful-vole-97310h ago
Stop waiting for the adjuster to volunteer information — they won't. Pull out your policy declarations page today, find your UM and UMPD coverage limits, and call back with specific questions. 'Do I have UMPD coverage and what is the limit?' Leave no room for vague answers. If they can't tell you clearly, ask for a supervisor. You're the customer and this is your policy.