Mom's accident settlement check is in her name only — how do we actually cash this thing?
Hey everyone, hoping someone here has dealt with something similar because I'm kind of at a loss.
My mom was in a pretty bad rear-end collision about two years ago and she finally settled her personal injury claim last month. The check just arrived and it's made out solely in her name, which makes sense legally I guess, but here's where it gets complicated.
I've handled all of our family's finances for years — my mom has had some serious financial struggles in the past (old bankruptcies, accounts closed by banks, basically no relationship with any institution at this point). Her credit is essentially nonexistent. I have great credit and a solid banking history, but this check is hers and the bank is telling us they won't let her sign it over to me or deposit it into a joint account.
We went to two different branches and got two different answers, which is maddening. One teller said it's a hard no, another said a manager might be able to make an exception depending on account history — but my account doesn't have transaction volume anywhere close to the settlement amount, so I'm not sure that helps.
I'm not trying to do anything shady here — this is her money from her pain and suffering, I just need it to actually be accessible and safe. A check sitting around makes me nervous.
Has anyone navigated this before? Did your attorney's office help facilitate anything? Did you open a new account somewhere specifically for this? Any credit unions or banks more flexible about this kind of thing?
Really appreciate any guidance. This whole process has been exhausting and we're so close to the finish line.