Fender bender felt like nothing — do I actually need a lawyer or is everyone overreacting?
So I got rear-ended at a red light about three weeks ago. The other driver was going maybe 15–20 mph, there's a decent crunch on my bumper, and I had some neck tightness for about a week that I honestly just pushed through with ibuprofen and a heating pad. It's pretty much gone now.
The other driver's insurance called me right away, was super friendly, handled my car repair without a fight, and already mentioned something about wrapping up a settlement for my 'pain and suffering.' The number they threw out honestly seemed reasonable to me — I don't want to be greedy, I just want to move on.
Here's the thing though: my coworker, my mom, and two different friends have all said some version of 'at least talk to a lawyer before you sign anything.' And I keep brushing it off because... it wasn't that serious? Like I feel almost embarrassed calling a lawyer over a sore neck that fixed itself.
I guess my questions are:
- Is there a real reason to pause before signing, or is signing now actually fine in a situation like this?
- How do you even know when something is 'serious enough' for legal help?
- Am I just going to feel silly wasting a lawyer's time on something this small?
I genuinely don't want to drag this out or make it into a bigger deal than it was. But I also don't want to find out in six months that I messed something up. Anyone been in a similar spot?