Hit-and-run driver got convicted but I've seen almost nothing from the restitution order — is this normal?
I'm going to try to keep this coherent because honestly just writing it out makes me frustrated all over again.
About four years ago I was on my way home from a late shift when someone sideswiped me hard enough to spin my car into a guardrail. The other driver took off. Witnesses got a partial plate and the police actually tracked the guy down within a few days — and here's the part that still makes my blood boil — he had already taken the car to a body shop to get the damaged panels repainted. Told investigators the scrapes were from a shopping cart. A shopping cart. The damage was across an entire door and quarter panel.
He eventually pled guilty. The court ordered him to pay restitution covering my medical bills, lost wages, and some other documented losses. I remember feeling like, okay, at least there's some accountability here.
Fast forward to now: I've received maybe 15% of what was ordered. The payments trickle in randomly — sometimes nothing for six months, then a small deposit. My attorney at the time said the court doesn't really enforce collection the way you'd expect. I've had two follow-up surgeries since the accident that I've largely been covering myself.
I guess my questions are:
- Is this how criminal restitution almost always goes?
- Is there anything separate I can still do on the civil side?
- Has anyone else been in this limbo where there's a conviction but you're still financially drowning?
I'm not looking for pity — I just feel like the system checked a box and moved on while I'm still dealing with the fallout every single day.
