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Other driver just sent me a diminished value demand — did my insurance already handle this??

Okay so I'm kind of spiraling right now and need someone to talk me off the ledge.

I was in a fender-bender back in the spring — I rear-ended someone at a stoplight when traffic stopped suddenly. My fault, I know, I've accepted that. Both cars drove away, we exchanged info, I filed with my insurance the same day. I thought the whole thing was basically wrapped up.

Then yesterday I get this envelope in my mailbox. It's a diminished value claim from the other driver — apparently they're saying their car is worth less now even after repairs, and they want compensation for that.

Here's what's freaking me out: the letter is dated almost two months ago. TWO MONTHS. It says if they didn't hear back within 21 days they'd move forward with legal action. I never got anything from my insurance about this, no calls, no emails, nothing.

So my questions are: 1. Is there any chance my insurer already dealt with this and just... didn't tell me? 2. Should the other driver's attorney have gone through my insurance instead of mailing me directly? 3. Do I need to lawyer up or is this something my insurance liability coverage handles automatically?

I'm not trying to dodge anything — I just genuinely don't know how this process works and the late letter has me worried I'm already somehow in default on something I didn't even know existed.

Has anyone dealt with a diminished value claim on the at-fault side? What did you do first?

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    patient-finch-963

    I was on the at-fault side of something similar last year. First thing I did was call my insurance rep directly — not the main 800 number, but my actual claims adjuster — and ask them point blank if they'd received any correspondence from the other party's attorney. Turns out mine HAD gotten a letter and just hadn't looped me in yet. Don't assume no news means no problem. Call them today.

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    plain-elk-033

    Your insurer has every incentive to keep you in the dark until something blows up. That way if there's a gap or a missed deadline, they might try to argue reduced coverage obligation. I'm not saying that's definitely happening here, but document EVERYTHING from this point forward — screenshot the postmark, note every call you make, get names of whoever you speak to.

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    daring-crane-411

    Okay so from the inside — diminished value claims on the liability side are actually pretty routine and most insurers handle them without ever notifying the at-fault driver because it's not coming out of your pocket, it's coming out of your liability coverage. The other party's attorney sending the letter directly to you is a little unusual. Could be they tried the insurance route and hit a wall, or could just be a law firm casting a wide net. Either way, forward that letter to your claims adjuster immediately and let them respond. That is literally what your liability premium pays for.

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    gentle-dove-988

    A couple of things worth knowing: diminished value is a legitimate claim in most states, but the burden is on the claimant to prove the actual loss in market value. Also, the 21-day deadline in that letter is almost certainly not a court-imposed deadline — it's a negotiating tactic. That said, don't sit on it. Forward the letter to your insurance company in writing (email is fine) so there's a timestamp showing you acted promptly once you received it. That protects you.

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      mellow-wolf-070

      Stop spiraling, start dialing. Call your insurance company right now. Read them the letter. Ask two questions: have you received a diminished value claim from this person, and are you handling it? Write down the name of whoever answers. That's step one. Everything else comes after that call.

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    humble-badger-705

    Not legal advice, but: if your liability coverage was active at the time of the accident, your insurer has a duty to defend you against exactly this kind of claim. The two-month delay in the letter reaching you is worth mentioning to your adjuster — mail issues don't automatically put you in default on anything. Get that letter in front of your insurance company today and ask them in writing to confirm they're handling it. If they start acting weird or denying coverage, that's when you'd want to talk to an attorney.

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    careful-badger-944

    I'd be freaking out too honestly. Two months is such a long delay — did the envelope look like it had been sitting somewhere? I wonder if it got misdelivered and then forwarded late. Either way I hope you get answers soon, this kind of limbo is so stressful 😟

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    bright-marmot-464

    Quick question — did you actually check whether the postmark on the envelope matches the date on the letter? Sometimes attorneys backdate letters or there are genuine mail delays, but sometimes the timeline isn't quite what it looks like on paper. Also, did your insurance ever send you any kind of closure notice on the claim? Might be worth pulling up your claims portal if they have one.