7 months pregnant, rear-ended hard, at-fault insurance keeps changing their offer — what's happening?
I really need some outside perspective because I feel like I'm losing my mind.
About six weeks ago I was sitting completely still at a red light and got slammed from behind. Hard enough that my car got pushed into the intersection. I'm 7 months pregnant. I went straight to the ER because I was cramping and the baby's movement felt off. They monitored us for several hours, ran a bunch of tests, and ultimately said baby looks okay — but the OB on call was pretty clear that some things "just can't be ruled out until delivery."
The at-fault driver's insurance finally got around to calling me last week. First offer: cover my ER bills plus a few thousand for pain and suffering. I asked one question — whether any future medical costs for the baby, if something showed up after birth that was tied to the crash, would be covered. The adjuster fumbled around, said maybe we could "revisit" things later if I could "prove" a connection.
Then, literally the next day, they called back and said they'd made an error on the first offer and wanted to bump it up — more on both the medical side and the pain and suffering side.
Now they're calling again wanting to "chat further."
I haven't signed or agreed to anything. But these back-to-back calls and changing numbers are making me nervous. Why does an insurance company keep revising an offer upward on their own? Is that normal? Are they worried about something I'm not seeing?
I'm exhausted, I'm huge and uncomfortable, and I just want to do right by my baby. Do I need a lawyer before I talk to them again, or am I overthinking this?