Claimed the other guy's damage through insurance — does fixing my own car make rates worse?
Long story short: my son (19, on my policy for about a year, clean record) was backing out of a tight spot at a strip mall last week and caught the corner of a pickup truck with his rear quarter panel. Totally his fault, not disputing that.
The pickup owner was super cool about it. We exchanged info, skipped the police report since both cars were drivable and the lot owner said it wasn't necessary. The other guy got an estimate from his regular shop — came back higher than I expected once they included paint blending on the adjacent panel.
I went back and forth about paying cash but then started worrying about what happens if their shop finds something underneath once it's torn down, or if the guy decides his neck hurts next week. Felt safer just running it through insurance so there's a paper trail and a claims adjuster in the loop.
Here's my actual question: my son's car has a small crease along the rear quarter — maybe 8 inches, nothing structural. I can live with it cosmetically. If I only file for the other driver's damage and skip fixing my son's car, does that actually help us avoid a bigger rate increase? Or does the insurance company just see "at-fault claim" and it doesn't matter how many vehicles they cut checks for?
I've already accepted the rate is going up. I just don't want to make it worse for no reason, especially since his car is barely noticeable unless you're standing right next to it in good light.
Anyone been through something similar? Appreciate any insight.