Debris from a crash I didn't witness wrecked my car — now nobody will help me track down the at-fault driver
This is so frustrating I don't even know where to start.
I was driving on the highway late on a weeknight during a pretty bad rainstorm. Out of nowhere I heard this massive bang and felt the car shudder. My first thought was a blown tire, so I gripped the wheel, steadied myself, and pulled off at the next exit to check. It was dark and wet and I could only see a small scuff near my front quarter panel. Figured it was road debris — a chunk of something that flies off trucks all the time. Drove the rest of the way home.
Next morning I walk outside and my jaw dropped. The front end looks like I hit something substantial — hood buckled, headlight housing cracked, front fascia pushed in on one side. I pulled my dashcam footage and it tells a completely different story than what I thought happened. A vehicle in the oncoming lanes had lost control, gone into the median, and all that churned-up gravel and debris got launched directly into my lane. I never even saw the other car — I was just suddenly in a debris cloud.
I called the highway patrol to ask if there was an incident report filed for that stretch of road that night. They were polite but basically said that since I didn't stop and exchange information at the scene, there's nothing they can do to connect me to that crash or share any other driver's insurance info. I explained I genuinely had no idea it was a crash — I thought it was road junk — and I have timestamped dashcam video placing me there. Didn't matter.
They told me to file a self-report online and figure it out from there.
I have the footage. I have repair estimates that are going to hurt. Do I have any real options here, or am I just stuck paying out of pocket for someone else's accident?