careful-hare-4205h ago

Do I have to pay my deductible upfront before repairs start on the other guy's car?

So I rear-ended someone at a red light last week — totally my fault, I'll own that. The damage to their bumper looks pretty real but mine honestly just has some scuffed paint and I'm not even going to bother filing for my own car.

Here's my situation: my insurance deductible is $800 and I genuinely do not have that sitting around right now. Paycheck doesn't hit for another 10 days and I've got rent due.

I called my insurer and honestly the rep I talked to wasn't super clear. She said something about the deductible being collected before the claim moves forward but then also said the other party could get an estimate started? I couldn't tell if she meant repairs would actually BEGIN or just the paperwork side.

I guess my questions are:

1. Does the other driver have to wait on getting their car fixed until I come up with my deductible? 2. Can I tell my insurer to hold off on my own claim but still have them cover the other person? 3. Is there any flexibility on timing for the deductible, or is it truly a hard stop?

I feel terrible that this person is stuck waiting on their repairs because of my cash flow issue. They were totally innocent and I don't want to make their life harder. Just trying to figure out if I have any options here or if I need to scramble and borrow money from someone.

Anyone been through something like this where you were the at-fault driver and had deductible timing issues?

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cool-raven-8335h ago
I was the at-fault driver in a fender bender a couple years ago and had almost the exact same panic about the deductible timing. Here's what I found out: your deductible actually applies to YOUR vehicle's repairs, not theirs. The other driver's damage gets paid out of your liability coverage, and liability typically doesn't have a deductible attached to it. Call your insurer back and ask specifically about your liability vs. collision coverage — I think you might be worrying about something that isn't actually a barrier for the other person.
- clear-mole-0335h ago
  That rep giving you a confusing answer is honestly a red flag. Insurers sometimes slow-walk claims or obscure the process in ways that aren't in your favor. Get everything in writing — follow up every phone call with an email summarizing what was said. Also double-check your declarations page yourself so you know exactly what coverages you have before you take anyone's word for it.
- patient-mole-4775h ago
  Former claims adjuster here. The other driver's repairs are almost certainly coming out of your bodily injury/property damage liability section, not your collision coverage. Your deductible only comes into play if you're making a claim on YOUR car through collision coverage. Since you said you're skipping your own car, you may not owe a deductible at all right now. That said, every policy is slightly different, so pull yours out and look at the declarations page — it'll spell out exactly which coverages have deductibles attached.
humble-heron-0265h ago
Stop waiting for clarity from one confusing phone call. Call back, ask to speak to a claims supervisor, and ask point-blank: 'Does my deductible need to be paid before the third party's repairs are authorized?' Write down the name of whoever you talk to. You'll probably get a much cleaner answer the second time around.
careful-swift-4115h ago
Just want to make sure — did anyone get checked out medically after the accident? Even low-speed rear-end collisions can cause whiplash that doesn't show up until a day or two later. If the other driver mentions any pain, that changes the claim picture significantly. Take care of yourself too, stress from this stuff is real.
clever-owl-7645h ago
To echo what others are saying — liability and collision are separate coverages that function differently. Liability (which covers damage you cause to others) generally has no deductible. Collision (which covers damage to your own vehicle) is where deductibles live. If you're not filing a collision claim on your own car, you likely won't be asked to pay anything out of pocket upfront. That said, I'd confirm this directly with your insurer and ask them to clarify in writing. Not legal advice, just general process knowledge.
- mellow-bison-8765h ago
  Honestly you sound like a really decent person for worrying about the other driver this much. A lot of people would just let the insurance company sort it out without a second thought. I hope it turns out the deductible thing isn't even the obstacle you think it is — sounds like it might not be from what everyone's saying here.
- keen-owl-6415h ago
  Good news is you've got insurance and you reported it promptly — that's genuinely the right move and it protects you legally. A lot of people panic and try to handle these things outside of insurance and it blows up on them later. You're already doing better than you think.