Got hit by a stop sign runner… and I didn't have insurance. What actually happens now?
I'm going to be honest because I don't really have anyone else to ask about this.
I'm 23, barely keeping my head above water between rent and groceries, and I let my car insurance lapse about two months ago. I kept telling myself I'd reinstate it as soon as I got a little breathing room financially. Well, that breathing room never came, and now this happened.
Three days ago a guy blew through a four-way stop in a residential neighborhood and T-boned me on the driver's side. He was 100% at fault — a neighbor came out and saw the whole thing and gave me their number. The other driver had insurance. My car is probably totaled and my shoulder and neck are pretty sore, though I haven't gone to the doctor yet because I'm scared of the bill.
The police came and I had to admit I didn't have current coverage. I got cited on the spot. I'm terrified about what that citation means — am I looking at losing my license? Possible fines I absolutely cannot pay? And separately, can I even make any kind of claim against the at-fault driver's insurance when I was uninsured myself?
I already know I messed up. I'm not looking for a lecture — I lived the consequences of this decision pretty vividly when that car came through my door. I just want to know what people who've been through something like this actually experienced. Did the citation ruin you? Were you able to get anything from the other driver's insurance?
Any real talk is appreciated. I feel really alone with this right now.