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Got tapped in stopped traffic — barely any damage but still annoyed. What would you do?

So this happened a few days ago and I'm still going back and forth on it.

I was sitting completely still at a red light when the SUV behind me bumped into me. Not a huge crash — more like a thud. The driver behind me apparently just wasn't paying attention and crept forward at low speed. We both pulled into a nearby parking lot, took some photos, exchanged info. Everyone was calm and friendly about it.

Here's the thing: the damage looks pretty minor. There's a small scuff and what looks like a stress mark on my rear bumper. It's subtle — most people probably wouldn't even notice it walking by. But I know it's there and it bothers me more than I'd like to admit. I keep this car in really good shape. I'm the person who will spend a Saturday afternoon hand-washing it and checking for door dings. So even something small feels like a big deal to me.

I didn't call the police because it seemed unnecessary at the time. I have the other driver's contact info and insurance info.

My questions are:

  • Is it worth going through insurance for something this small, or does that just invite more hassle than it's worth?
  • Can I just contact the other driver directly and ask them to cover a repair estimate?
  • Should I get a body shop quote first before deciding anything?
  • Is there any risk to waiting a few more days before figuring this out?

I know in the grand scheme of car accidents this is nothing, but I don't want to just let it go if I don't have to. Anyone dealt with something similar? What did you end up doing?

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