Insurance keeps saying my back problems are 'pre-existing' — anyone dealt with this BS?
So I'm in my early 40s and was rear-ended pretty hard by a delivery van about 18 months ago. Felt fine-ish the first day but by day three I could barely get out of bed. Since then I've done physical therapy, two rounds of injections, and my doctor is now recommending surgery on two of my discs.
Here's where I'm losing my mind: the insurance adjuster keeps pointing to my MRI results and saying the disc damage is just 'age-related degeneration' that was already there before the crash. Like... okay? I'm 42, not 82. And I never had back pain before this. I wasn't on any medication, I wasn't missing work, I was coaching my kid's soccer team on weekends.
Now I can barely sit through a 45-minute car ride and they want to act like the van slamming into me at a stoplight had nothing to do with it?
My doctor actually wrote a letter saying the trauma 'aggravated an underlying condition' — which I thought would help, but the adjuster basically shrugged it off.
Has anyone here fought back against this kind of argument? Did you get an independent medical exam? Did you need a lawyer to push through it? I feel like I'm being gaslit into thinking a crash that totaled my car somehow didn't hurt me.
Any advice or shared experiences would mean a lot right now. I'm exhausted and frustrated and honestly starting to feel like they're just hoping I'll give up.