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My sister's claim is dragging on forever — she has a toddler and no income coming in

Posting this on behalf of my sister because she's too overwhelmed to do it herself. About five months ago she got T-boned at an intersection — total wasn't her fault, the other driver ran a red light and there were witnesses plus camera footage. Her car was totaled and she ended up with a pretty serious back injury that's kept her from working.

Here's the thing — she was self-employed doing pet sitting and dog walking. So there's no W-2, no employer to file a claim through, nothing clean and simple. She has a three-year-old and her partner works but it's not enough to cover everything on one income, especially with all the medical appointments piling up.

The other driver's insurance accepted liability pretty early on, which felt like a win, but now it's like... radio silence and waiting. Her attorney checks in occasionally but she feels like she's just sitting in a queue somewhere.

Some things I'm wondering:

  • Is there anything she can do to speed up the process, or is this just how it works?
  • Does it make sense to get a second opinion from another attorney at this stage?
  • Are there any ways to get some financial relief while the claim is still open? I've heard something about "advances" but I don't really know how those work or if they're a trap
  • How do you even prove lost income when you're self-employed and your records are kind of informal?

She's not trying to be greedy, she just needs to keep the lights on and take care of her kid. Any advice from people who've been through something similar would mean a lot. I hate feeling helpless watching her stress about this every day.

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